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Multichoice still hooked in a bitter tax battle with Nigerian authorities

Posted: 30 Aug 2021 12:20 AM PDT


We learnt last month,  that Nigerian authorities had either frozen or were attempting to freeze the bank accounts of several big companies over tax issues. By far the biggest name on the list was the South African entertainment giant Multichoice. The company is now involved in a heated battle over ₦1.8-trillion (US$4.3 billion) tax bill.


In a horrific turn of events for the South African multinational, a tax tribunal headed by the Federal Inland Revenue Service recently ordered the company to pay at least half of the tax bill before it could hear Multichoice's appeal. This seems rather blatantly unfair it's like asking someone to pay an admission of guilt fine before you can hear their appeal in court except this time you are being asked to pay U$2 billion just so your case can be heard.


Multichoice has until 23 September to come up with the payment. This is the date to which the case was adjourned to. Naturally Multichoice is disputing the size of this bill and refusing to pay before their case can be heard and all indications are that they do not intend to comply with the latest order from the tribunal.


The direction issued by the tax appeal tribunal (TAT) does not compel MultiChoice Nigeria to make payment of 50% of ₦1.8-trillion, being half of the disputed tax assessment which is under appeal,

 

The direction issued by the TAT … requires MultiChoice Nigeria to deposit with the FIRS an amount equal to the tax paid by MultiChoice Nigeria in the preceding year of assessment or (MultiChoice's emphasis) one half of the disputed tax assessment under appeal, whichever is the lesser amount plus 10%.
 

The lesser amount is the tax paid by MultiChoice Nigeria in the previous assessed year, which is substantially less than the disputed assessment.
 

 [MultiChoice] law-abiding corporate citizen and continues to engage constructively with the FIRS in an attempt to resolve this matter.

 MultiChoice's statement in the wake of this ruling

They usually say they are three sides to every story. The usual two sides and somewhere in the middle the truth. This time though I am more inclined to sympathise with MultiChoice. MultiChoice is worth about R50 billion on the JSE. How can the Nigerian government be demanding R65 billion in taxes? That's more than what the company is worth after years in business.

This is not the first time Nigerian authorities have targeted a South African company either. They also locked horns with the MTN group again over taxes. Yet again a ridiculously high amount was involved. For some reason the country's Attorney General withdrew this case at the beggining of this.

It will be interesting to see how this ends though. My money is on this ending the same way MTN case ended. The whole thing will just go quiet at some point but not before MultiChoice suffers some real pain.

 Source:  www.techzim.co.zw

Pastor Tunde Bakare – I don’t know why Oyedepo makes noise about his private jet

Posted: 30 Aug 2021 12:00 AM PDT

The founder of Citadel Global Community Church, Tunde Bakare, has said he is no enemy of David Oyedepo, the founder of Winners' Chapel, although they share different doctrines and beliefs.

Speaking in an interview with TVC on Saturday, August 28, the former vice presidential candidate said, "Oyedepo and I are contemporaries. We were born in the same year. He was born in August, 1954, and I was born in September. We are contemporaries, God has really blessed him and used him.

We have differences in doctrines, what we believe, but that does not make us enemies. There is a difference between issues and persons. I have nothing personal against any man of God but I will always defend the truth that I know and I will always make it plain.

By the way, when he makes noise about his private jet of a thing, do you know that I once acquired a 1707 with the logo of our church on it? Are you aware of that? But we use it for business. I don't buy a plane to be spending money on it, that I can jump quickly on another and pay little money to where I'm going. We can afford it; we are not envious of them at all."

Kemi Adetiba Release Sequel To Her Popular 2018 Movie

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 11:30 PM PDT

It's the day that nearly every Nigerian movie lover has been waiting for – the day of the return of the King Of Boys.

After a successful run in cinemas back in 2018, producers of the political thriller film decided to bless fans with a second installment.

Production ran through most of 2020 and now fans finally get the opportunity to see what becomes of the revered Eniola Salami (the powerful character played by veteran actress Sola Sobowale).


With a power-packed first installment that garnered rave reviews and multiple awards, fans have remained at the edge of their seats, anticipating what would now be a seven-part series released exclusively to streaming giant, Netflix.

Written, produced, and directed by Kemi Adetiba, 'King Of Boys 2' will return previous cast members such as Sola Sobowale, Remilekun "Reminisce" Safaru, iLLBliss, Osas Ighodaro and some new faces such as veteran actor, Richard Mofe Damijo.

Netflix Naija has also been teasing the film, giving us sneak peeks into what we should expect.

"Is this your king? King of Boys: The Return of The King is now streaming," they wrote in a post on Friday.

Kano Hisbah --"why i treats the rich and poor differently"

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 11:00 PM PDT

The Kano Hisbah Board has explained why it treats the rich and the poor differently while enforcing some of its rules.

A director of the Islamic police, Aliyu Kibiya gave the explanation while featuring on a Freedom Radio programme.

Kibiya said it is against the tenets of Islam to publicly criticize a leader. He said;

"Although we call on everybody in the society to do the right thing, but we make the call on case by case basis.

"It is against the tenets of Islam to mount the podium and call out leaders. There are ways to caution a leader without criticizing him in public."

The Sharia police recently came under fire for allegedly turning a blind eye to some acts committed by the rich and clamping down on young men from poor homes with stylish haircuts, in addition to banning mannequins at fashion shops.

Though the commander-general of the board, Haroun Ibn-Sina told the radio station that they also arrest the children of the rich, he did not cite examples of the children of the rich they've arrested.

Alex Ekubo shares first Instagram post after failed engagement

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 10:30 PM PDT

Actor Alex Ekubo has shared his first Instagram post since his failed engagement to model, Fancy Acholonu.

Recall that on Thursday August 26, Acholonu confirmed that she called off their engagement, adding that "it is important that everyone finds their happiness and live in their truth".

Ekubo who has been off social media since Wednesday August 25, shared his first on Saturday evening. The actor shared a photo of him receiving an honorary doctorate degree from a Benin Republic university with the caption "Tomorrow I will tell the Story."


BBNaija: Jackie B reveals why she don’t want to kiss, be in relationship with Michael

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 10:53 PM PDT

Big Brother Naija, BBNaija housemate Jackie B has said she is not ready to be in a relationship with Michael. 

Jackie B said this on Saturday night after the party as Emmanuel confronted her about her situation with Michael.

Michael and Jackie B kept a distance from each other during the Saturday night party and after.

Michael explaining to Peace and Angel after the party said Jackie B is making him confused as she wants him to herself alone yet does not want to define what they are.

Jackie B, on the other hand explaining to Emmanuel, said she is not ready to be Michael's girlfriend yet as she's still getting to know him but would not accept any form of disrespect from him in the house with other girls to make her look stupid.

According to her, Michael wants her to be kissing and doing other stuff with him in the house but she rejected it.

"I like Michael but don't know him enough to just be his girlfriend.

"He wants us to define things just now, he wants kissing and all but I'm not that kind of person I take time before I get deep with anyone and not ready to do that yet.

"I'm not a child I'm almost 30 and can't just enter any relationship for the sake of it but he wouldn't wait," Jackie B tells Emmanuel.

Tecno Phantom X review. It’s got all the right boxes ticked

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 03:49 PM PDT


The Phantom line is Tecno's most technologically advanced lineup of smartphones and the Phantom X I have here is probably their best execution of a Tecno flagship smartphone to date. It has an uncompromising look and feel to it even though some compromises were made to make it what I would call a flagship killer. You can watch the cinematic review below


Exterior

The front is dominated by a 6.7 inch full HD Oled display with a 90Hz refresh rate, some extreme curves to the sides and a pill shaped cut out for the dual selfie cameras, one regular one and a wide angle. The earpiece is a tiny slot between the edge of the display and the metal frame and in that tiny bezel are the usual sensors as well as a selfie flash.


Your volume and power buttons are on the right edge but slightly pushed towards the back to accommodate the curved display and I very much love how the back glass and the metal frame neatly divert from their original line to give equal margins of frame above and below the row of buttons.


The top edge houses the secondary microphone and the triple slot tray which holds 2 sim cards and an SD card. It also has a rubber ring for improved water resistance even though it does not have an official water resistance certification.


Towards the bottom edge is the headphone jack which is thoroughly extinct on a number of flagships, the primary microphone, a USB-C port which supports 33W fast charging, faster than what Samsung, Apple or Sony can do with their flagships, and an array of holes for the loudspeaker.

Moving over to the back, the Phantom X has one of the biggest camera bumps I have ever seen on a smartphone. It is as thick as 4 credit cards stacked on top of each other and it's a 2 tier bump as well with the first one housing the signature Quad LED flash and the laser autofocus and the second one housing 3 camera lenses.



Such an extravagant camera bump should mean an extravagant camera experience too which we will find out in the camera section of this review but right now, just looking at the sheer size of the main sensor tells me we are in for one solid camera experience.

The setup is a massive 1/1.3 inch 50MP ultra sensing sensor, an 8MP wide-angle camera and a 13MP 2x telephoto. The Tecno branding is laid underneath the glass horizontally and the glass itself feels very nice in the hand. It's a frosted glass finish with really subtle grooves running the length of the back. I noticed when I handled it, the camera bump would be a natural resting place for my index finger.

Software & UI
The Phantom X is running Android 11 with HiOS 7.6 on top and I found 6 software features that looked pretty interesting.

Pic-In-Pic
It has a picture in picture mode. So if I want to continue listening to my YouTube video whilst I write down my notes. I just swipe up with 3 fingers in the YouTube app and it becomes a floating window then I can open my Notes app and get to jotting.

If I want to interact with the YouTube app whilst it's in this floating window mode to maybe select another video, I just tap it once, search for the clip i want to watch and then tap these pinch in buttons to make it smaller and resume with my notes. When I feel like closing the youtube app I can just swipe left or right and it's gone.

Peak Proof
There is also a peek proof mode which allows you to dim or completely black out part of the screen so that snoopy passengers or spouses can't see the full view of the content on your screen. You use some virtual buttons to adjust the blinders to exactly what you want to show or hide by moving them up or down and left or right to adjust how transparent or opaque the blinds will be.

In-Display Fingerprint
The fingerprint is now in the display and it is very snappy but more crucially very reliable. It was able to recognise my fingerprint 100% of the time. I was not too confident with it because of how slow it was during the set up phase but it performs well when it matters.

There are also 3 different unlock animations available in case you want to spice up the unlocking experience but unfortunately there is no way of switching animations off or downloading more. Something that can be solved with a software update.

Edge lighting
There is edge lighting as well which animates the curved edges of the display for stuff like app notifications and calls. For each you have an option of 3 different animations to choose from and also the option of disabling them all together if you prefer not having them.

Video Assistant
Video assistant mode is another interesting feature. It only activates when you are in any of the prelisted video apps and you can add more if they are not on the list.

So let's say you are in YouTube, you swipe and hold from the left or right edge of the screen and you get a tool kit for some quick controls and quick actions like a do not disturb mode for just calls or just messages or just notifications.

Play in the background is super awesome for YouTube because it allows you to listen to whatever video you are playing whilst the display is off. Unfortunately, it won't allow you to play a video on YouTube in the background whilst you do other things like WhatsApp or something but you have the floating window feature for that.

Ella Virtual Assistant
And finally, there is Ella, Tecno's own virtual assistant. You can summon it by saying Hey Ella so naturally we all want to know how she compares to google assistant.

It can perform some basic tasks like setting timers, telling you the weather and a voice search on Google. It can even make voice calls or play music. the simple stuff.

However, the harder stuff like reading calendar events as well as context-based requests like saying good morning to it yield no results. I was troubled as well that it cannot perform arithmetic requests which I assumed is one of the basic stuff.

Granted Ella still has a long way to go before it gets to the level of Google Assistant but if you still prefer Google Assistant you can set it as a default in the settings. I am impressed to see Tecno taking a jab at having its own virtual assistant. It's quite a bold move.

Performance
Smooth has been my experience since day one with the Phantom X. It has a very generous spec sheet that I'll throw in below.

OS Android 11HiOS 7.6.0 CPU MediaTek Helio G90Octa Core GPU Mali-G76 MC4 Display 6.7" 2340x1080 pixelsFHD+ OLED HDR1090Hz Main Camera 50MP primary13MP 2x zoom8MP wide angle4k video recording Secondary Camera 48MP primary8MP wide angle1080p video Storage 8GB RAM256GB InternalMicroSD up to 256GB Connectivity Dual Sim2G, 3G, 4GBluetooth 5.0 Sensors AccelerometerAmbient lightStep counter Battery 4700mAh33W fast charge30% battery drain after 3 hour endurance test Price US$550

 

It's got a 90Hz refresh rate panel which adds to the smooth user experience to the animations when closing apps, switching windows and even gaming. It's pleasant in day-to-day usage. The display is FHD+ and does the job well for general stuff like navigating the UI and going through social media. It's not as sharp as what you'd get from the likes of Samsung, Sony or Xiaomi but most people won't notice.

Something Tecno does not mention is that the display on the Phantom X supports HDR 10 which is impressive at this price range. HDR means better picture quality especially for gradients as well as richer colours. I am impressed with that.

Both sim slots get the same treatment in terms of connectivity with 4G available on both. And for those who are curious, yes Zol sim cards work in this phone but because of the always on LTE demands of Zol and TelOne sim cards, it will SIGNIFICANTLY affect battery life.

Speaking of battery life, the Phantom had a 4700mAh battery which is 300mAh smaller than the one in the Camon 17 and Spark 7 that I did a comparison of.

But the Phantom X can charge that battery at a very impressive 33W with the bundled charger that unfortunately I did not have for this review. As much as the battery is a bit smaller that the rest of the Tecno lineup, the Phantom managed to beat the Camon 17 and the Spark 7 on endurance only experiencing a 30% power drain after our 3 hour battery torture test of an hour each of gaming, video recording and video streaming.

The Phantom X is a guaranteed 2 day battery phone as long as you are not using a Zol or TelOne line in it.

The loudspeaker is noticeably better than other Tecno smartphones I have reviewed so far. It produces a richer and meatier sound and it gets pretty loud too. In fact I could not tell the difference compared to the loudspeaker on my Huawei P30 Pro apart from the higher max volume.

It's a solid performer. More pleasing to use on a day to day basis but also with enough horsepower for the heavy lifting when you demand it.

Camera
The Phantom X has an impressive camera setup. And to see how impressive it is, I decided to pit it against the best smartphone camera of 2019.Tecno's ultra sensing camera system vs Huawei's Super sensing system.

Daylight shots are pretty close. In fact it is pretty difficult to tell them apart. Both the Tecno and the Huawei were shooting in full auto with each phone's AI imaging wizardry turned on. They were pretty much even when it came to detail with the Tecno's HDR brightening up shadows in images a bit better than the Huawei. In Fact throughout most of the daylight shots, the Tecno is taking slightly brighter shots than the Huawei

The Tecno also takes photos that are slightly more true to life when looking at the colour balance. Huawei tries to saturate the colours a bit more to make the colours in photos pop and so the greens are greener, the blues are deeper and the reds are more vivid on the Huawei than on the Tecno.

But every phone does a good job of taking photos during the day. The real test of those cameras is at night.

Here is where the Tecno takes Huawei's lunch. Night shots on the Tecno look brighter than on the Huawei. The stars are nice and crisp and let's face it, you can see a lot more of them on the Tecno than on the Huawei.

Colour is also where I preferred the Tecno. It had a more accurate white balance and more accurate hues than the Huawei which was throwing a weird green shade to every night shot and what impressed me most about the Phantom is how the image processing did a much better job than the Huawei of smoothing out the shades and colour gradients. The Huawei has distinct gradient steps that make the image a lot less clinical.

It's a toss up when it comes to daylight photos between these 2 phones but for night shots the Tecno definitely wins that one. The only dent to it's clean record is that it took a lot more work to get the night mode to work on the Tecno versus the Huawei and also while the Huawei was always spot on with focus, the Tecno was hit or miss and I had to do 4 retakes of some shots whilst I took none with the Huawei.

The Phantom can shoot videos in 4K and the videos look phenomenal. The dynamic range is as good as in the photos with impressive details in the shadows as well as in the highlights. Focus is alright. It does a lot less focus hunting which means it spends a lot less time twitching as it looks for focus.

The camera UI also has some convenience where if you swipe from the top down in the viewfinder it essentially drags the whole top row of toggles closer to the bottom so that it's easier to reach all the controls with one hand.

There are only 2 frustrations I had with the camera. The 1st is that you can only shoot 4K on the main sensor and not on the wide angle or the telephoto which both top out at 1080P.

The second and biggest issue I had is that it does not have a pro mode or manual mode that allows me to be a lot more creative with the camera. And it hurt me a lot because Tecno fitted the Phantom with a monster camera and I know I could get a lot more out of it than what Tecno is allowing me.

The compromises
The Tecno Phantom X will be retailing between 500 and 600 dollars in Zimbabwe which is a decent chunk of change but a lot cheaper than let's say an iPhone 11 or a Galaxy S21 Ultra. This is because some sacrifices were made to make it cheaper than the competition.

There is no NFC, wireless charging, water resistance certificationor a more powerful chipset like Mediatek's Dimensity chips so when I ran Geekbench 5, the Tecno was considerably far behind the 2 year old Huawei P30 Pro in every way.

That said, the kind of corners Tecno is cutting are those that a majority of people in their target market will not use and most likely won't miss either which makes them good compromises.

Thoughts
The Tecno Phantom X is one very well rounded phone. Price aside it is complete. The design is breathtaking and matches the flagship aesthetic.

The performance of the software is very fluid and intuitive and it has some nuggets buried inside it like the play in background feature for videos.Same goes for demanding tasks like gaming where the decent chip does a good job on a number of titles but also the 90Hz display amplifies the immersive experience.

The camera. It is a phenomenal performer both day and night in both photos and videos and delivers quality all the time so long reliability stays true.

And a solid 2 day battery as expected from Tecno devices as of late so long you don't spend your time using Zol or TelOne sims in it.Throw in the price of 5 to 600 dollars and you start to ask a couple of questions. Will it perform as good as other 500 dollar smartphones from other brands like Xiaomi, Samsung or Huawei? The simple answer is yes it will. You cannot get a better all round package from other brands in the same price bracket.

But is the very best from Samsung, Huawei, Apple and Xiaomi up to 700 dollars better than the Phantom X? That's a definite No. While some compromises were definitely made on the Tecno it is still pretty much 90% of the phone that all these other flaships are but at half the price. It's also good enough to fully satisfy the needs of over 90% of the market Tecno is targeting. Easily.

What a time to be alive when cheap phones are becoming VERY good.

Source: techzim

Tecno Camon 17 Pro Smartphone

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 03:29 PM PDT

 

Tecno Camon 17 Pro was launched on May 7th, 2021. The phone comes with a 6.80-inch display with a resolution of 1080x2460 pixels at a pixel density of 395 pixels per inch (ppi).


Tecno Camon 17 Pro comes with 8GB of RAM. The Tecno Camon 17 Pro runs Android 11 and is powered by a 5000mAh battery. The Tecno Camon 17 Pro supports proprietary fast charging.


As far as the cameras are concerned, the Tecno Camon 17 Pro on the rear packs a 64-megapixel primary camera; an 8-megapixel camera; a 2-megapixel camera, and a 2-megapixel camera. It sports a 48-megapixel camera on the front for selfies.


The Tecno Camon 17 Pro runs HiOS 7.6 is based on Android 11 and packs 256GB of inbuilt storage. The Tecno Camon 17 Pro measures 168.89 x 76.98 x 8.95mm (height x width x thickness) . It was launched in California Dream Silver and Malibu Blue colour.


Connectivity options on the Tecno Camon 17 Pro include Wi-Fi, GPS, and USB Type-C. Sensors on the phone include fingerprint sensor.

Maria, JMK, & Sammie Have Been Evicted From BBNaija

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 02:06 PM PDT

Six housemates were up for possible eviction this weekend.

The week's eviction show got off to a quick start with little room for chit-chatting with the housemates.

JMK was sadly the first housemate to be called up for eviction as according to show host, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, Big Brother wanted to rattle the housemates.

The next housemate to exit the game was Sammie shortly after Ebuka's twist to announce Queen had been saved for the week.

In another surprising twist, Ebuka announced Maria as the third and last housemate to be evicted from the game. Going by fan reaction, the housemate appeared to have garnered a loyal following over the past weeks hence her shocking exit.
 

Housemates saved for the week are Pere, Cross and Queen.
 
This is how the viewers voted:
Image Credit: BBN



Here are 7 sexual fantasies your woman has that are completely OK

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 09:00 AM PDT

Let's Marvin Gaye and get it on...

What do you think goes on in your girlfriend's mind?
OK, that could be quite a lot, with her thoughts likely ranging from how she's going to change her weave, how she's going to nail that presentation at work, how she'll smash her next exam, how to secure the bag.

For those that are married, the things going through your wife's mind could revolve around the things listed above as well as business ideas, how to execute them, more ways to secure the bag, how to care for the kids, and on and on like that.

But that's on one hand. In a sexual sense; do you know what goes on in your partner's mind and the things she fantasizes about? Do you even know if she has any?

Chances are that she actually does. Don't be surprised that she has some really dark/nasty/super banal desire she's not telling you about… yet.

When women fantasize about sex, here are some of the most common things their mental images are centered around:

1. Someone unknown
American media hub, Healthy Place, asked women what they fantasized about the most and one of the most recurrent responses they got was women [names changed] saying they looked forward to meeting up with complete strangers and hitting it up for one night of madness.

"The idea of sharing a passionate night with a stranger and behaving like a sexual predator doesn't just sound inviting; it sounds delicious. And leaving after we're done without even knowing each other's names is the best part."

2. How about an orgy?
The idea of threesomes and in fact, more bodies, seems like an interesting to quite a number of women as well.

"The freedom of being nude in front of a bunch of people who are equally exposed, allowing different men and women to touch and penetrate your body simultaneously is incredibly erotic," another woman says.

3. Taking the reins – in a spectacular fashion
Women also like taking charge. And this is just not in a sense of getting into the cow girl position. Some of the things women want here include "spanking him, ordering him to perform certain sexual acts, making him beg for what he wants, having him suck on their stiletto heels or some other phallic object."

Wheeeew!

4. She wants to put up a show
Another woman says she likes "imagining that people are watching me while I'm taking my partner's manhood into my mouth gives me a feeling of satisfaction because it makes me feel sexier."

Fuelling people's voyeuristic needs is apparently a thing, too.

5. Master and subservient
Vicky says, "having him instruct me on how to lick and suck his member or at what pace to ride him will make me orgasm faster than I can say 'Yes, Master.'" On the other hand, Denise interrupts, saying; "It depends. In some fantasies I obey, yet in others I fight him and refuse to do anything he says until he finally ties me to the bed and calms me with his rhythmic penetration."

6. Another woman
"The idea of touching another soft, hairless body and softly sucking her tongue, amongst other things, seems very erotic," according to Sara.

7. More than one man
Women also say they think about having more than one man to themselves, just as men fantasize about sex with more than woman.

One of the women says she would love to have the two men performing oral sex and penetrative sex on her at the same time. Another wants anal sex and vaginal sex at the same time while blindfolded all through.

Wild!

How to use onion juice to grow your hair

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 08:00 AM PDT

It is important to note that onion juice has been successfully used for decades to stimulate hair growth.

There are people who are naturally gifted with fuller hair; they do not worry themselves about hair loss or hair growth stimulating ingredients.

But there are others who constantly battle with falling hair and stunted growth. And it seems like no matter how hard they try to tackle it, the condition will never change.

However, it is important to note that onion juice has been successfully used for decades to stimulate hair growth. And this is due to the fact that the plant is rich in sulfur.

Sulfur plays a vital role when it comes to hair growth. In fact, it is dubbed the main building block of hair because it improves blood circulation as well as providing the hair follicles with enough nourishment.

Recent studies have also shown that onion is endowed with a lot of anti-bacterial properties, and these anti-bacterial properties are known to help combat scalp infection that contributes to hair loss.

It is, however, important to highlight here that according to a 2002 study about the use of onion juice for hair loss published by the Journal of Dermatology, participants who applied onion juice twice daily for the period of two months experienced much better hair re-growth rates compared to those who only used tap water.

In the study, hair regrowth was observed in 87% of patients treated with onion juice.

Here's how to make onion juice for hair growth

However, apart from applying onions juice to your hair for rapid growth and stronger hair, eating onions regularly can actually encourage the hair growth process.

The more onions you eat by adding them to your diet, the more your chances of having a healthy hair. Although eating onions is not as effective as applying onion juice to the hair, it sure helps in working wonders when the two methods are combined together.

Is it right to put your girlfriend on a monthly allowance?

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 07:00 AM PDT

As great as bae allowances are, no one should ever feel under any pressure to give them.

Let's talk about boyfriends, girlfriends and the appropriateness of giving monthly allowances to someone you are in a relationship with.

Unsurprisingly, one of the most discussed, often controversial aspects of relationships is money and its application in those. Issues about cab fares after visits, who pays during dates, how much one needs to earn before considering a relationship, etc have been debated on social media in the recent past.

One other aspect of this money discussion is the practice of giving a girlfriend money at the end of every month for her up keep.

This money is actually known as Bae Allowance – money a guy gives his girlfriend at the end of each month for her random needs.

Bae allowance is cool...

There is nothing stopping anyone from giving money to a girlfriend. Heck, there's even no rule about how frequent it should be or how much it should be.

It is not illogical for a man to want to spoil his woman in all manners he deems fit. If a monthly allowance is one of the ways he chooses to appreciate his woman's presence in her life, then, no one should give such guy grief for that.

For the guys who feel comfortable doing so, it is admirable and nice. And you should never feel discouraged by people to stop if you see no problem with it.

Bae allowance is not a relationship standard

Bae allowance may not be wrong but it should never be a relationship benchmark for anyone. If you date someone who gave you a monthly, weekly or daily allowance, it is important to understand that such person did it as a largesse and not a compulsory or widely-expected relationship standard.

Bae allowance is not on the same pedestal of relationship expectations as communication, honesty, gift-giving and others.

This is why every money [whether monthly or less frequently] between partners need to be appreciated for the gifts they are, and not demanded as if they contractual obligations.

As we already said in another post here, your boyfriend does not owe you the duty of gifting you money, just as you do not owe him the duty of cooking his meals or tidying up his apartment in your visits.

People should do these things because they are capable and want to do so. No one should be compelled to do them.

There are relationship things you can demand because you are entitled to them; a monthly allowance, as nice as it is, isn't one of them.

10 funny superstitious beliefs every Nigerian has heard

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 06:00 AM PDT

Many Nigerians grew up hearing about these superstitions, which grew out of fear of the unknown.

There are more than a hundred superstitions we heard from friends and family, growing up.

Superstitions is a belief in supernatural causality that can be linked to a fear of the unknown. When one event causes another without any natural process linking the two events, it is definitely a superstition. Here is a list of 10 pretty interesting superstitions chosen based on how ridiculous and common they are:

1. Itchy Palms
Itchy palms are said to be a sign of good luck — it could also mean a large amount of money is coming your way.

2. Crossing legs
It is said that if you cross over a pregnant woman's legs, you will give birth to a child that looks like the person. Another version is that you shouldn't let anyone cross over your legs, if not you will give birth to a child with one arm or leg.

3. Seeing ghosts
The common warning is not to bend over to peer through between your legs, especially in crowded places like markets. One is bound to see ghosts and witches that way.7

4. Spitting
If you have a sore throat, it is probably because you spit on the floor and someone stepped on it.

5. Eating in the dark
This is forbidden. It is believed that if you eat in the dark, you could be giving room to the dead to eat with you and this could lead to your death or grave ailments.

6. Eating from the ground
It is believed that when your food falls to ground, you should not pick it as the devil has eaten it.

7. Whistling at night
Whistling at night is believed to attract evil spirits and snakes.

8. Answering a call
If you hear your name and answer to it without seeing the person that called, you have just answered a ghost's call.

9. Sleeping face up
It is believed that sleeping face up is the best position for spirits to have access to your body and soul.

10. Sneezing
It is believed that a sneeze means someone is calling your name somewhere.

The health benefits of this plant are unbelievable

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 05:30 AM PDT

With garlic, you can easily tackle the root cause of acne by purifying your blood from inside to get a healthy skin on the outside.

The health benefits of garlic are numerous.

Unknown to most people, garlic is the oldest known medicinal plant variety in existence. It has been used for the treatment of different illness from time in memorial.

As a matter of fact, garlic is one of the best kept medicinal treasures of the past era – the plant has also been used as an antibiotic to treat bacterial, fungal and parasitic infections for the last 7,000 years.

And with a history of thousands of years, garlic which originally is a native to Central Asia and northeastern Iran has long been used as a traditional medicine, worldwide.

However, a lot of people have refused to associate themselves with the plant because of it obnoxious smell. They know that consuming garlic can be very beneficial to their health yet it is almost impossible to convince them to make use of it.

But garlic is like every good medicine that has either a bitter taste or an odd smell. And in this case, it is the latter. Be that as it may, the obnoxious smell of garlic should be nothing compared to the health benefits of the plant.

Here are some of the unbelievable health benefits of garlic

1. Garlic purifies the blood
With garlic, you can easily tackle the root cause of acne by purifying your blood from inside to get a healthy skin on the outside.

All you need do is to take two cloves of raw garlic with some warm water every day, early in the morning and consume a lot of water the entire day.


Also, if you're looking to shed some pounds, squeeze the juice of half a lemon in a glass of lukewarm water and have it with 2 cloves of garlic in the mornings.

In addition, garlic will helps to cleanse the system and flush out toxins as well.

2. Garlic is an Anti-bacterial and Anti-parasitic
As a plant, garlic has been used as an antibiotic to treat bacterial, fungal and parasitic infections for the last 7,000 years. Scientific studies have even gone further to suggest that diluted garlic extract helps children with tapeworm infections.

Although a garlic-based mouthwash may not sound interesting, a very small quantity of its extracts is sufficient to ward off cavity-causing bacteria.

3. Garlic lowers cholesterol levels
Scientific studies have shown that there are two kinds of cholesterol: LDL, and HDL. And the former which is LDL is bad for human health.

Garlic, on the other hand, is rich in the allicin compound and effectively prevents LDL cholesterol from oxidizing.

It is, therefore, advisable for people who have high cholesterol level to include garlic in their daily diet.

4. Garlic controls diabetes
The deadliness of diabetes can be said to be as a result of its numerous side effects. Diabetes can harm the kidneys; inhibit nervous system functions, cause heart disorders, and even lead to poor eyesight.

However, the oil extracted from garlic may protect diabetic patients from these side effects.

Garlic helps to treat Intestinal Problems

Garlic clears up most intestinal problems like dysentery, diarrhea, and colitis. Its role in dispelling worms is phenomenal.

It does not affect the functioning of useful organisms in the intestine, which aid in digestion, but it does destroy the harmful bacteria present in the intestines.

5. Garlic helps to treat infected wound
As an herbal treatment, garlic can be placed on infected wounds. But rather than applying it in its raw form, garlic should be mixed with three drops of water as the undiluted juice can irritate the skin.

6. Garlic increases libido
Surprisingly, garlic has been proven to have certain aphrodisiac properties. This means that as an herb, garlic can be used as an effectual sex rejuvenator.

Furthermore, is believed to enhance the libido of both men and women.

Owing to this, it is advisable for people who overindulge in sexual activities to consume garlic in their diet or in supplemental form, as it will help protect them from experiencing nervous fatigue.

5 cheap ways to make your room finer

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 05:00 AM PDT

A beautiful room makes you feel calmer, safer and saner.

Your room is your private haven and your sanctuary and it is on you to make it beautiful.

After a long day of work, school or whatever it is that takes you out of the house, you need to come back home and feel comforted and accepted.

If you work at home, that is more reason to make your house as comfortable as possible.

When we talk about home décor, our minds tend to run wild thinking of expensive stuff. But it isn't so; these are five cheap items to

1. Good lighting
A bright space is a happy space. Good lighting brightens up your space. You can also have dim lights for times you aren't in the mood for a full glare.

2. Flowers
They have an instant effect on your room. You can buy synthetic flowers or real ones. You can also buy plants that do not need to be watered. An example would be ponytail palm, succulents, pothos, snake plant and so on. Synthetic flowers are great because they come in different colours too.

Snake plant
Snake plant

3. Mirrors
Most men don't have mirrors in their homes/room and that is such a bad thing! Mirrors and glass add elegance to the environment.

This is not a mirror with plastic edges nailed on the wall. No, full-length mirrors or a dresser with a mirror attached.

4. Artwork and painting
Here is the mistake people make. They try to buy really expensive artwork. Art doesn't have to be so expensive. To beautify your home you need more than one. Sometimes the art by the roadside is cheap and beautiful, you should consider that.

5. Organization
Shelf, drawers, shoe racks, laundry baskets and wardrobes are essential décor items. They help to keep your home neat, beautiful and organized. The opposite of that is to have items laying about and you do not want that.

4 ways to cure your Friday night hangover

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 04:30 AM PDT

Have you over done it after a busy week, don't worry we got you.

Friday nights are meant for fun. You have spent a whole week working and you deserve a break.

So, you go out with your friends and you start from one shot, then another, before you know it, you are completely drunk. The next day when you wake up, and you do not remember how you got home.

Drinking too much alcohol is bad for your health and you should drink in moderation.

The most common disadvantage of drinking too much is the effect it has on your liver. Your body would find it quite difficult to digest alcohol.

Research has also shown that alcohol leads to some heart problems as well as different types of cancer.

But say it happened that you got drunk. You went out for a fun Friday night with the guys or girls and by the time you woke up on Saturday morning you had the worst hangover. Here are a few ways you can feel better.

1. Drink a lot of water or electrolyte drinks
Drinking water helps to overcome the side effects of a hangover. Alcohol leads to dehydration and a loss of electrolytes in the body. You should drink water to restore the PH level. Electrolyte drinks like milk and coconut water can also help.

2. Eat a lot of carbs and take some coffee
You need your blood sugar up so just eat a nice healthy breakfast and take coffee, black tea, or green tea. You should feel like yourself soon enough. Cure

3. Take antioxidants
Alcohol causes oxidative stress. This is when the free radicals in the body are out of balance with antioxidants. Antioxidants would help to clean up these free radicals in your body. Sources of antioxidants are grapes, carrots, ginger, cherries. You can blend this all to make a smoothie.

4. Use painkillers
Hangovers always come with headaches, be sure to take some painkillers for some relief. If you have stomach ulcers stay away from anti-inflammatories like ibuprofen.

Hopefully, one bad hangover helps you stay away from too much alcohol, if it doesn't be sure to come back to this article.

3 factors that make meat good or bad for you

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 04:00 AM PDT

If you are Nigerian, you cannot eat any food without some sort of meat inside it.

Nigerians popularly called it an Obstacle. You hear things like, "There is no obstacle in this food, no way I am eating it."

Meat is a broad term we used to refer to animals and poultry. Meat also means red meat like beef, pork and lamb; white (lean) meat like chicken and processed meat like sausages.

Meat is neither out rightly good nor bad. Meat is a source of protein, vitamins, fatty acids and minerals. It helps increase metabolism and leads to stronger bones

One of the major issues with meat is that it has been linked with different diseases but the common saying is that correlation is not causation.

Meat is not out rightly bad, it has some health benefits. A lot of factors makes it either good or bad.

How it is prepared
It is better to grill your meat than to fry it. Grilling your meat helps to burn some fat off it which reduces the fat content.

You can also bake, boil or stir-fry your meat for a reduced fat content

The type of meat
Generally, lean meat is healthier than red meat. Lean meats are meats that have a low-fat content like chicken, turkey, fish and pork. They have low calorie and low fat.

Red meat on the other hand has a high-fat content e.g. beef, goat meat.

Buy shellfish like shrimp, crab and lobster. It adds variety to your meal and it is quite healthy.

The size of the meat
The lesser the size the more healthy it is. The American Cancer Society has recommended three-four ounces of meat.

Three-four ounces would be like a bar of soap or a deck of cards.

I know you are thinking, 'Should I just become a vegan?'. Well, while vegans are less likely to have heart related complications, the lack of meat leads to certain nutrient deficiencies they should supplement.

Steps to make pancakes at home

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 03:30 AM PDT

Pancakes are easily one of the best breakfasts you can make.

Pancakes are so easy to make but some people have not even tried to learn this easy breakfast meal.

You should know how to make pancakes on a Saturday mornings or any day of your choosing.

Here is what you need
Flour
Baking powder
Sugar
Salt
Milk
Vanilla Extract
Eggs
Vegetable oil or butter
Here is how to make pancakes
Mix the flour, baking powder, salt, and sugar in a bowl.
Then mix the wet ingredients, milk, eggs, and vanilla extract into another bowl.
Mix the dry and wet ingredients together until they turn into a smooth paste.
Oil a non-stick frying pan properly with either vegetable oil or butter.
Pour your paste into the frying pan.
Wait a while for it to get thick and solid on one side before you flip it.
Flip it until the other side turns brown.
You can enjoy your pancakes with honey.

Here are 6 games to play at the beach

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 03:00 AM PDT

After walking the length and breadth of the beach, what else can you do?

If you want to have the best time at the beach, you should go with a group of at least ten people, that way you can play these fun beach games.

Here are some games you can play at the beach.

Head, shoulder, knees, and bottle
This is a common game where people line up opposite bottles. Someone calls out heads, shoulders, knees, and bottle. When the players hear, "Bottle" they are supposed to grab the bottle, the person who grabs the bottle first wins.

Sometimes, a cone is used instead of a bottle.

X and O or Tic Tat Toe
You can play this childhood game X and Os on the sand. Whoever gets 3 Xs or Os vertically or horizontally or diagonally wins the game.

Suwe or Hopscotch
This game is familiar to all Nigerian children. Little rectangles are drawn in the sand, and people jump on them while singing a song.

Charades
Charades is a game where one person tries to describe a person, thing or phenomenon without saying it but by gesticulating or drawing it. The other person then tries to guess what the other person is attempting to say.

Volleyball, Football or catch
Taking a ball with you to the beach allows you to play a variety of games. The group can play Volleyball, Football, or just throw and catch the ball.

Tug of war
In Tug of war, two groups attempt to pull at a rope, the group that pulls hard enough and makes the other group fall wins.

TECNO X BBNaija 6: TECNO’s tasks pushed the housemates off their comfort zone

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 03:11 PM PDT

If by chance you have been living in the moon, not much has passed you. There is just one major update you need; Big Brother Naija Season 6 is on, and smartphone brand TECNO is right there to take you on an amazing journey.

Since the show started, there has been 3 Saturday night parties. And thanks to TECNO's Phantom X and Camon 17 Pro, we have all the glam and hot pictures of the housemates slaying in many different shades.

The Tecno Phantom X comes with:

6.7-Inch,

256GB ROM,

8GB RAM

Android 11

50MP+13MP+8MP+48MP+8MP

Dual SIM 


To bump up the fun to a new high, the brand put the viewers on the tips of our seats as we watched the housemates run against time to stack up points for themselves at the Thursday task day.


The day was impressively put together by TECNO, and I must say, on behalf of everyone that watched; we really had fun! The tasks, the entire setup, even the outfits provided for the housemates, all came together perfectly.

To set the tone, the housemates were grouped into 4 teams and asked to pick group names starting with the letter X, alluding to the 'X' in Phantom X.

The housemates rose comfortably to the challenge and came up with:

Team Xceptional; Boma, Saga, Jackie B, Cross and Sammie.

Team Xcellent; Jaypaul, JMK, Peace, Nini and Angel.

Team Xtraordinary; Maria, Yousef, Saskay, Tega and Queen.

Team Xclusive; Liquorose, Emmanuel, Michael, Pere and Whitemoney.

The first task was the Word Unscrambler game. Each group was to unscramble as many Phantom X related words as they could. If we didn't know how beneficial playing Scramble was, now we do.

It was a tough game but Team Xclusive, made up of Liquorose, Emmanuel, Michael, Pere and Whitemoney, claimed the victory. And the reward, a 100,000 Naira for each team member.

The second task, the X-Rush, was more physical and intense as it had the housemates running around carting balls from one point to another.

Things got really interesting and after all the exertion and excitement, Team Xceptional, made up of Boma, Saga, Jackie B, Cross and Sammie, won the game. Here, housemates from the winning team were also rewarded with 100,000 Naira each.

The third and final task was introduced by artiste Broda Shaggi. Immediately I saw him, I knew the final task was going to involve creativity, and I sure was correct.

Broda Shaggi told the housemates that their next task was to record, edit and present a 7-minute stage play about the social challenges currently affecting the country and continent as a whole.

The four teams each dug deep and came up with moving plays on gender inequality, domestic violence, child education, and drug abuse. But only 1 team could emerge winner, and that team ended up being Team Xcellent. Members of the team, Jaypaul, JMK, Peace, Nini and Angel, each won 250,000 Naira and a Phantom X phone.

But wait, there's more. TECNO fans online were asked to show their love and vote for their favorite male and female housemates, with impressive performances during the TECNO task.

The 2 housemates, one male and one female, with the highest votes would each be crowned with the title PHANTOM of BBN and also win 200,000 Naira each. Wow, isn't it! After intense voting, Whitemoney and Liquorose claimed their titles.

To say it was a fun packed day would be an understatement. We watch BBNaija for its ever-entertaining content, and TECNO didn't drop the ball.

The brand gallantly came through! Now, I know it can't be just me waiting to see what next, they have up their sleeves.

Actor Mike Ezuruonye Blows Hot Over Fraud Allegation — “I’m Tired”

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 02:30 AM PDT

Nollywood actor, Mike Ezuruonye has reacted to the accusation made by fans that he allegedly used his influence for fraudulent activities.

The Brother Jekwu star made an Instagram post on Friday, expressing his displeasure, stating an impostor claiming to be him is behind the scam.

"To all those silly women who have been severally explained to that it ain't me but impostors who scammed them and they go further trolling I, my family members, my friends, their KIds, I mean children, with steady insults.

I'm done having compassion for you stupid lot, explaining sh!t. How much una get wey I wan scam una f**k all of you. Talk rubbish, I will clap back," he wrote.

Mike on several occasions has been accused of allegedly scamming women. He also had a face-off with a popular director, Kunle Afolayan regarding a fraudulent allegation.

Singer Burna Boy makes grand entrance in a spaceship to his show at O2 Arena

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 02:00 AM PDT

Afrobeats singer, Burna Boy made a surprise grand entrance to his show at the O2 Arena, London yesterday August 27 in a spaceship.

The Grammy-winning Nigerian singer, arrived at his show in a spaceship amid wild cheers from thousands of fans who turned up at the event in London.

Burna Boy had first graced the stage of The O2 arena alongside popular British singer Stormzy at the BRIT Awards in 2020, but eventually returned for his first-ever headline show on Friday.


Some Nigerian artistes like singers Omah Lay, Ruger and Marvins star Rema also performed at the show held inside the O2 Arena in London.

Watch the video below:

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=343047790902078

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Top 5 Nigerian cosmetics brands

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 01:30 AM PDT

This is a glimpse into the beauty and cosmetic world in Nigeria, with the top five brands listed.

The beauty industry in Nigeria has scaled to the level where local entrepreneurs have come up with fantastic cosmetic products.

The consumer habits have also changed with the products from local entrepreneurs now enjoying more patronage than foreign products.

The rise of the make-up industry also facilitated the increase in usage of local products.

These brands are popular, affordable, and made with the best quality materials. These are the best five.

1. House of Tara


We must start this list with the famed House of Tara. House of Tara was founded in 1998 by Tara Durotoye.

She is the fairy godmother of bridal makeup and makeup artistry in Nigeria. She also began teaching make-up and then producing makeup with distributors in almost all the 36 states of Nigeria.

House of Tara has an impressive array of products. She has concealers, foundations, primers, lipsticks, lip liners, eyeshadows and so on.

My favorite House of Tara product is the eyeshadow palette, named after African queens and royalties like Queen Amina, and Queen Nana.

2. Zaron Cosmetics

The Founder and CEO of Zaron Cosmetics is Oke Maduewesi. It was founded in 2011. Oke Maduewesi has an MBA from the University of Leeds and was a former bank manager at Zenith Bank Plc.

Zaron cosmetics is immensely popular with 25 franchise outlets and 800 distributors in Nigeria and other African countries.


My favorite product is certainly their foundation. The best thing about Zaron Cosmetics is how they take note of black women different complexions and, produce products that easily blends with their skin.

3. Yanga beauty


Makeup artists testify of the quality of Yanga beauty products. Yanga Beauty founder is Jennifer Lisa Uloko, a makeup artist before she began makeup production.

Yanga beauty also produces makeup tools like brushes, gloves and other products to help make up artists.

My favorite Yanga beauty product is their eyeliner. It is simply exquisite.

4. Zikel Cosmetics

Ezike Kelvin Chinedu is the founder and CEO of Zikel cosmetics. Zikel cosmetics frequently holds a Lagos Beauty Expo and Face of Zikel competition which first premiered 2019. Their products are incredibly cheap and distributed to every part of the country.


Zikel cosmetic has a wide range of beauty products like lipsticks, eyelashes, contact lenses, foundation palettes and so on which are very popular in the market.

5. Nuban beauty

Nuban beauty was founded in 2017 by Stella Ndekile, a Medical Laboratory Scientist and part-time makeup artist and Jane Ogu, who is known under her business name Flawless Faces by Jane.


Nuban beauty foundation comes in 16 amazing shades, more shades mean appropriate coverage for women's skin shades.

Nuban beauty also has a range of eyeshadow, lip-gloss, foundation, concealers, and many more products.


Why the Maldives is a dream vacation destination

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 01:00 AM PDT

Do you ever wonder why Nigerian celebrities and influencers love to go to the Maldives?

Maldives is an independent island and tourist country located in the North of the Indian Ocean with about 130 resort island hotels.

Living in Nigeria, being engrossed in the hustle and bustle of survival, trying to make ends meet does not mean you can't still dream of luxury.

Also, these are things you can plan for if travelling around the world is part of your bucket list as it is on mine. Whether or not you can save for it depends on how much you're earning, but you may never know what the future holds.

According to airlines, it costs $826.26 to fly from Lagos to the Maldives. This is a little bit over N300,000. So, to and fro would be over N600, 000.

Some rooms and chalets cost less than N70,000 per night but, others are way more expensive. If you plan this trip with friends or partners the cost might be less.

Obviously, a trip to the Maldives is one of luxury and class. These are some of the reasons why it is a dream destination.

Clear, blue skies and the blue sea
Do you ever imagine what paradise is like? Travelling to the Maldives gives you the perfect opportunity to experience paradise.

The skies are the bluest of blue, there are green leaves and palm trees everywhere and, the white sand would calm your spirit and relax your nerves

Snorkeling and sunset watching

Snorkeling is basically swimming in a water body with diving masks and swimming fins. You can see fishes and other aquatic creatures underneath the water.

You can also plan to see one of the beautiful sunsets by camping by the beach. You would get to see the sun melt into the water and, turn golden.

Speed boating, jet Ski, boat Cruise
Speed boating is a small boat that moves fast, if you are looking for that kind of excitement, you can plan that.

Jet skis are a little bit more dangerous, and you might need help with that. A jet ski is like a scooter (motorcycle) that the rider sits or stand on in the water.

If these activities are too dangerous for you, an ordinary boat cruise is a perfect activity for you to try.

You would sit in the boat in your bikini, or whatever you have on, sipping, drinking, and having a good time.

Swimming
You can swim in the ocean and have that experience. Hopefully, if you do that, it means you are a good swimmer; the tides are low and, there is a lifeguard around.

You could also swim in a resort swimming pool or relax by the poolside.

Tropical drinks and cuisine
Your taste palate would experience a change for the better when you have a taste of their delicacies or their cocktails.

I spoke to Sarah who went on a trip to the Maldives. "What I loved about the trip was the view, the people there were friendly, their food was good but very boring at a time, because I missed African food.

There are many more reasons why people love to go to the Maldives. If you are like me and you cannot afford it now, you can always dream about it as I do.

7 Nigerians speak on their partner being bestie with someone of the opposite sex

Posted: 29 Aug 2021 12:30 AM PDT

"We are just friends" How true is this? How comfortable are you with your partner having a best friend who isn't you?

I asked seven people how they felt about their partners having a best friend of the opposite gender.

Before you enter a relationship or marriage, your partner had people in their lives and, so did you. Where does that leave their former friends and yours too?

Wunmi says, "If he can prioritize me over her, no problem, she would have to be both of our best friends. If not, he should just date his best friend, now people are even advocating we date our friends sef."

Danny said, "If we aren't each other's best friends then we shouldn't be dating. I can never date a lady who has a best friend who is a guy."

Tomi said, "I can never allow that, it is nonsense. I am a very jealous person and, comparisons might start happening between the I and her."

Abraham said, "I am saving that position for someone. I have a best friend and, he is a guy. That is enough. I want my wife to be my best friend."

They all feel like this best friend would soon take their place in the relationship or marriage, is this a legitimate feeling or just a mere insecurity?

Muyiwa thinks, "I don't think that this is an issue you mandate for your partner. It is what they need to do by themselves. Boundaries should not be set by the other person. Everyone has to do what is sensible and fair."

"Having a best friend of the opposite gender or not does not mean that your partner will cheat on you. It does not mean that they won't abandon you."

"It is your partner's responsibility to make sure that their best friend does not encroach on your time/attention."

Zubair thinks, "She has a boyfriend now, she has to review whatever relationship they have and get some boundaries between them."

Odion says, "I am her man now, that should end."

There are situations where a partner was uncomfortable with the 'bestie' relationship and, at the end of the day, they left them or cheated with their best friends.

Even though relationships are about trust, boundaries are also important.

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