"My most anxious moments often aren't at work, but when I'm on the train at midnight and it stops moving," a New York colleague told me recently. For her, the hardest part was not knowing when the train would start again. A huge improvement came when the conductors started announcing why the train stopped and when it might resume.
For those who rely on transit, such uncertainty can be excruciating. It throws any schedule into potential chaos and requires constant vigilance for potential route changes or erratic schedules. Research also links the noise of traffic congestion to increased rates of anxiety and depression, though there is a bit of debate about that.
A somewhat dated study published in Social Science & Medicine used data from Los Angeles collected in 2002 and concluded that people "who reported the most traffic stress also had the lowest health status and greatest depressive symptoms."
Of course, not all of us are affected by traffic in the same way. My wife can hum away in a traffic jam or crank up a podcast and never be bothered by it, though she generally prefers I do the driving. Most of us, however, are affected by the noise, smells, and uncertainty of a long or difficult daily commute.
If you can alleviate that burden in any way, it's well worth the effort. If your commute happens during rush hour each day, for example, consider asking your employer about off-setting your start and end times to gain a quieter commute.
Whenever my wife and I have lived in a larger city, our commute was always the key criterion in deciding where to live. I prefer transit to driving but only when I can avoid any transfers. Transfers are when you have to get off one bus or subway and onto another. Every transfer increases the uncertainty of your final arrival time. To me, paying a bit more for housing or even living in a less attractive home are small prices to pay for getting hours of my day back and avoiding a major frustration of city living.
If you can avoid city living and relocate to a smaller locale, all the better. That's obviously not an option for everyone.
If there's nothing you can do to adjust your commute, one of the best things you can do is use the time well.
That might mean listening to podcasts or audiobooks, if reading isn't feasible, or using the time to make phone calls (assuming you have reception). Drives are my favorite time to catch up with family and friends or carve out a sustained period for deep self-reflection.
If your commute time feels useful, you won't be as annoyed by interruptions or delays. And if you can use those frustrations as a way to temper your patience, you might even become a better person along the way.
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